
At the girls’ camp I go to each year, the classes focus on practical homemaking skills, and this year I took the Home Hospitality class. As Christians, we’re commanded to extend kindness to all, but especially to display Christ’s love to those we allow inside our homes. What better way to win someone for Christ than through showing them how you live out your faith on a normal day, when company’s around?
I know it’s not always easy to be hospitable- especially if company drops in without any warning! But we should do our best to show Christ’s love to everyone that enters our home, whether it’s Dad’s co-workers or the kids down the street.
Probably the most challenging part of homemaking/hospitality is planning the menu. Each day in class, we had to spend some time writing out detailed menus for various events, and I found it was harder than I thought! We didn’t just plan out whatever we wanted-we had to plan according to what we had in our “pantry”, according to how many guests we would have, and whether we had any money we could spend to buy extra ingredients. That exercise definitely gave me more of an appreciation for what my Mom does on a daily basis!
So, here’s what I want you to do. I’m going to give a list of ideas, and you choose one to try out. You don’t have to report back or anything like that, I just want you guys to have some fun, and see kind of what our Moms do.
If you want to tell me how it went, I’d love to read your comments!
#1- Try planning out a day’s worth of meals (breakfast, lunch and supper, plus one snack). Go through your pantry (see the link below for a list you can use to help!) and see what you have. Then, use ONLY the items you have in your house now to come up with your menu for your family. Use whatever cookbooks your Mom has, or your imagination, to come up with ideas, but just keep in mind that you need to vary the ingredients (you can’t use all of something in one day-otherwise you won’t have any for the rest of the week!).
#2- Try planning a holiday meal (Thanksgiving, Christmas, 4th of July, etc) using what you have in your pantry, plus you can use $15 to buy other things if you need them (if you have sale papers you can look in those for prices, but if not, just ask your Mom-she’ll definitely know!
). Also try and think about how you’d like to arrange the table, and if you’d like to do any activities/games.
#3- Plan a tea party that you can host soon! Pick a theme, and then plan from there. You can use what you have already, plus $25 to buy extra ingredients/other items you’ll need.
#4- You could also try planning a whole week’s worth of meals for your family, using what you have in your pantry. It’s challenging, but once you’ve done it it’s a lot of fun!
To help, here’s a link to a master pantry list. You can use it to mark off what you have, so when you’re planning you don’t need to keep running to the cupboards to check.
http://www.stallionstore.com/index2/pantrylist.htm
I know most of us are years away from actually running our own homes and using this on a day to day basis, but I think it’s important to learn now how to be a homemaker, and to help our Moms! Hopefully this will give you a greater appreciation for all she does, and maybe you can even help her out by giving her ideas for meals.
My Mom gets frustrated often in trying to come up with a menu that will suit all the different likes/dislikes in our family, so when we give her ideas it really makes her happy.
Have fun with it!